A Happy, Successful Life All Starts With YOU!

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Carol_Talbot

A Happy, Successful Life All Starts With YOU!

Posted 08 Jul 2018

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Carol Talbot

A Happy, Successful Life All Starts With YOU!
How do you show up in the world each day? Do you smile to your colleagues when you enter your workplace or are you wearing a frown?  
 
Did you know that like a 24/7 radio, your thoughts, self-chatter, energy, emotions and presence are loudly communicating to others! In fact, your thoughts and feelings are constant broadcasters, sending and receiving information at every moment. 
 
Research studies have shown that the human heart emits an electromagnetic field that extends up to several feet out from our body in a 360-degree radius. And that your heart is 100,000 times stronger electrically and 5000 times stronger magnetically than your brain. What that means, is that your heart literally communicates with the hearts of others in your immediate vicinity! When you feel good, others feel good and conversely, when you’re upset it affects those around you too. Energetic interactions possibly contribute to the ‘magnetic’ attractions or repulsions that occur between people and also affect both our business and social relationships.
 
I’m sure you have experienced being around certain people who seem to drain every last drop of energy from you. You feel exhausted just being near them. Conversely, there are other people who raise your energy and it feels good to be in their presence.
 
So here is the deal; you, as a human being, are pure energy. You are energy and everything around you is energy and that means you are entangled and connected to everything and every person around you. How you behave, how you think and feel is also vibrating into this field of energy. Your vibration and positive energy can and does affect and impact others.
 
The planet and everything on it is energy that is vibrating. Your thoughts are vibrating. Your feelings and your desires are vibrating. And it’s a two way street. What you send out into the world bounces right back at you whether that be confidence, or lack of confidence, success, or lack of success, vitality or lack of vitality. 
 
The late Steven Covey said: “We do not see the world as the world is. We see the world as we are.” What this means is that when you manifest a shift in yourself, it impacts others. In fact, the quickest way to bring about a shift in others is to start with yourself. When you shift energetically, it creates a ripple effect. 
 
Author and biologist Rupert Sheldrake developed the concept of morphic resonance; a force that connects each individual with all other individuals in its species, and suggests each species has a group mind or collective consciousness. For example, If you go diving, you’ll see schools of fish all moving in a direction and then switch direction instantaneously as if they all got the message to switch at exactly the same moment. Now imagine this morphic resonance and its impact on a business, within a team or in your life!
 
So how can you ignite this morphic resonance in your team or business or life? One of the fields I work in is Neuro Linguistic Programming. It has many different definitions from ‘the new art and science of getting what you want,’ and ‘fitness for the mind’. My own definition is that it’s simply ‘the user manual for your mind.’ NLP is a process of awareness that helps you understand how you do what you do, from your thoughts, behaviour, the language you use to yourself and others on a regular basis - your beliefs, values, and energy. More importantly, it helps you become aware of how your thoughts, behaviour, language, beliefs, values and energy impact yourself and others… and make rapid shifts.  
 
Remember, you have a huge amount of choice in how you choose to show up in the world. When you become aware of your own impact on others, you open the door and possibilities for expanding your own potential. It all starts with YOU! 
 
For more information, please feel free to reach out to me.
 
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dana

dana says:

3 months 3 weeks ago
This was nice for me to read. I also enjoyed reading your responses below. You are right, everything we do, even our moods-are a choice. From smiling Dana :)
Susan

Susan says:

3 months 4 weeks ago
Gosh, so much of this makes so much sense, yet I agree with @Henry who rightly points out its not actually easy to put into practice. I try and show up in the world in a positive light daily, but some days I must admit that I struggle to achieve that. I am sure that's part of our human journey...
Carol_Talbot

Carol_Talbot says:

3 months 4 weeks ago
Absolutely Susan! As much as we all wish to be happy all the time, we live in a world that offers us the experience to feel different emotions... and like a buffet, we make certain choices.
Henry

Henry says:

4 months 1 day ago
I very much enjoy read this one and sound so easy to live the life like that but really vewy difficult. When I am having a bad day how I can remember to smile and be a good human?
Carol_Talbot

Carol_Talbot says:

4 months 1 day ago
Hello Henry, thank you for your comment and question. It's a choice to smile ... and the more you do it, then it becomes a habit. It's especially useful when you are having a bad day as it has been identified that one minute of anger weakens our immune system for 4-5 hours! And one minute of laughter strengthens your immune system for 24 hours! I know which I would prefer!!!

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